Songs idealizing marriage -- if sometimes only fleetingly or implicitly -- used to be pretty common in popular music, even in '60s rock. I am insufficiently up-to-date to know whether that's still the case, but here are some old examples, with a bonus or two at the bottom of the post. (Happy anniversary, Linda, a few days early.)
"Wedding bells are going to chime":
"Some day my name and hers are going to be the same":
Audio only"
"A lifetime of devotion."
Audio only:
"Then he asked me to be his bride."
"When I come home, I'll wear your wedding ring."
"A Pretty Girl to Love Me/With the Same Last Name as Mine (Gram Parsons, audio only)
"Let's Walk up to the Preacher/and Let Us Say I Do"
"Would you marry me anyway . . ."
. . . to marry you and take you home.
"Hey, Paula, I want to marry you"
I hope we won't be hearing (or seeing) anything like this again:
Or this:
Then again,
John Hartford thinks otherwise: "And it's knowing I'm not shackled/By forgotten words and bonds/And the ink stains that are dried upon some line . . ."
There are plenty of divorce and break-up songs, especially in country music. I decided to include this one because of the jubilant lyrics and the delightful intro:
And in a much more depressing vein:
Special song for tomorrow:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N-vYuV3OmhE
penned by Mann and Weil
Posted by: cory | June 14, 2025 at 09:21 AM
Excellent selection of songs, Steve.
Here are some of my favorites:
Buddy Holly, Peggy Sue Got Married:
https://youtu.be/tgA3WUFPiQk?feature=shared
Rolling Stones, That’s How Strong My Love Is
https://youtu.be/g17WEvG05Cw?feature=shared
ABBA, I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do, I Do
https://youtu.be/9NRVEpd9M0I
The Seekers, I’ll Never Find Another You (Judith joined the Choir Eternal in 2022)
https://youtu.be/hqMZePE7SQk?feature=shared
Paul Stookey, The Wedding Song (written for Peter Yarrow’s wedding)
https://youtu.be/1ZhTKAb7Ebg?feature=shared
Joan Baez, Sweet Sir Galahad (I first heard this at Woodstock, Sat morn 2 a.m. drifting off the the ethereal sound of Joanie’s voice)
https://youtu.be/R9cpBML9SoE?feature=shared
Tammy Wynette, Stand by Your Man
https://youtu.be/zc4e-HdlhPY
Suzy Bogguss, Someday Soon
https://youtu.be/6fM_jnS-MjY?si=-pjThzIq9GeVyrqm
If you like opera, follow what has to be the grandest story of marriage persuasion -- the final act of the Puccini opera Turandot
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Read the synopsis here to set the scene (skip to Act III if impatient):
https://www.metopera.org/Discover/Synopses/Turandot/
Then go here for the three minute Finale:
https://youtu.be/YCTDEblTqOk?feature=shared
Posted by: A Spy in the House of Love | June 15, 2025 at 02:43 AM